Wingwoman

  • Wingwoman – An Ukrainian or Russian woman that can help in your search for a girl. Through emails, calls, video calls or in person
  • There is a personal service in Ukraine, meeting her in real life (soon in other ex-soviet countries)
  • A Wingwoman can advise you on dates with Ukrainian girls. Like a Wingman she will only ever be on the mans side
  • It’s good  to have the advise of a woman in addition to a man to get the full picture.
  • From messages sent the Wingwoman can give her opinion say tell what kind of woman she is, how educated she is, if she is serious, if she is lying, if she might be a scammer
  • Check on Facebook, VK, Instagram (She would need her full name) Find out about her life, friends what she is writing in Russian or Ukrainan
  • Contact her on Viber and WhatsApp and find out about her intensions
  • Wingwoman in Ukraine
  • In person she can:
  • Translate on romantic dates (If needed) from Russian or Ukrainian to English or maybe to another European language.
  • Take you to inexpensive restaurants and cafes
  • Take you to date at interesting places
  • She can say she is just a translator, make friends with the girl then find out about her. The type of girl that she is, if she is serious, if she is in a relationship, if she has had any dates with foreign men before, if she has any children. Anything you would like to find out about really. (Remember she is only ever on the mans side)
  • Offer the girl money to participate in some type of fake scam with her
  • Take you to inexpensive restaurants and cafes

Scam Checks

  • Carried out to find out more information about a girl and to check that she is genuine.
  • For many reasons I might not be able to get all information on a girl
  • Scam Check
  • Photo recognition software to see if the photo is anyone else’s
  • Find her on Facebook, VK, Instagram (I would need her full name)
  • Phone number checked by country and city
  • Look on scam lists for name phone number
  • Find out where her emails are being sent from
  • Look for her on other dating sites, check name and details are the same
  • With a sample of some messages she has sent to you. I can give an opinion if the girl is a scammer
  • and other checks
  • £25
  • Scam Check Plus
  • All previous checks
  • I will contact her to find out if she will message other men (If she doesn’t answer me, the extra fee will be refunded)
  • Ask her to confirm her profile (check of passport by the site)
  • I will find out more about her through messaging. I’ll try to get her full name the exact place she lives and anything else you would like me to find out.
  • £50
  • Scam Check Diamond (Available soon)
  • All previous checks
  • Plus Electoral roll and other details (Address, who she lives with and more details)
  • £75
  • Scam Check Ultimate (Available soon)
  • All previous checks and
  • She is met in real life given £10 worth of flowers, photo taken
  • Prepared file included
  • £100

Russian Language

  • Russian Language – Learn this ( not Ukrainian or another ex-Soviet country language)
  • 70%+ of Ukrainian people speak Russian as their first language
  • Ukrainian language is spoken in the West and by some young people in Kiev.
  • Official statistics show Ukrainian to be the language that is spoken mostly in Ukraine , this is not the case it’s Russian
  • I have list some Ukrainian Words and phrases at the end.
  • It’s good to know some words and phrase before you go.
  • English is spoken well by a third of people, a third of people know some English and a third of people don’t speak English, but know a bit from school.
  • Most old people don’t speak any English.
  • да    Da    Yes
  • нет    Net    No
  • не    Ne    Not
  • Зачем    Zachem    Why?
  • Кто – Kto – Who?
  • Где – Gde
  • Как дела?    Kak Dela?—  How are you
  • Я хотел бы пива    Ya by khotel piva    I’d like a beer.
  • Здравствуйте! – Zdravstvuyte! – Hello (Formal)
  • Привет –  Preevyet    Hi
  • Спасибо    Spaseeba    Thank you
  • Хорошо    Horosho    Good
  • До свидания –  Da sveedaneeya    Good-bye
  • Пока     Poka  – Bye
  • я    Ya    I
  • мы    Mi    We
  • Как Вас зовут? – Kak vas zavoot? – What’s your name?
  • Пожалуйста – Pazhalooysta – You’re welcome / Please
  •  Вы    Vi –  You (Formal)     
  • ты   Ti    You (Informal)
  • Я понимаю –  Ya ne paneemayoo    I don’t understand
  • Вы говорите по-английски    Vy govorite po-angliyski  – Do you speak English?
  • The Russian Cyrillic alphabet is quite simple to learn. It can be learn’t in a few hours.
  • А а    a    like ar in far
  • Б б    be    like b in box
  • В    ve    like v in voice
  • Г    ge    like g in go
  • Д    de    like d in day
  • Е е. –  ye    like ye in yet or e in exit
  • Ё ё    yo    like yo in you
  • Ж    zhe    like s in pleasure
  • З    ze    like z in zoo
  • И.   ee    like ee in meet
  • Й    ee kratkoye (short i)    like y in boy
  • К    ka  – like k in key or c in cat
  • Л    el    like l in lamp
  • М    em    like m in man
  • Н    en    like n in note
  • О    o    like o in not
  • П    pe    like p in pet
  • Р    er    5like r in rock (but rolled)
  • С     es    like s in sun
  • Т    te    like t in table
  • У   oo    like oo in moon
  • Ф    ef    like f in food
  • Х    kha    like ch in Scottish loch
  • Ц    tse    like ts in boots
  • Ч    che    like ch in chat
  • Ш   sha    like sh in short
  • Щ   shcha    like sh ch in fresh cheese
  • ъ    tviordiy znak (hard sign)    has no sound
  • ы    ih    like i in ill
  • ь   myagkiy znak (soft sign)    has no sound
  • Э    e    like e in end
  • Ю    yoo    like u in use
  • Я    ya    like ya in yard

Dating Girls In Their Country

  • On dates:
  • Stay calm
  • Smile
  • It’s not what you say more how you say it and what your body language is.
  • Languages will need to get used to. Even if they are fluent.
  • In the daytime take her to a cafe. In the evening an inexpensive restaurant. Maybe Italian.
  • Be a gentleman, hold the door open for her.  Help her of and on with her coat. Pay the bill (You must always do this else, she will not consider your) Hold her hand down steps ( A good test to see if she likes you) Walk her to her bus / metro stop.
  • Take the lead, decide where to eat. Order the food if possible. Pay the bill (You must always do this else, it will be over)
  • Bad signs when meeting:
  • She doesn’t want to hold your hand or holds it loosley
  • She pulls away if you are close.
  • She leaves a present from you.
  • She shows you the sights, she turns into tour guide mode. Wants to entertain you, you are her guest.  She wants to  (Just that doesn’t look at you romantically)
  • She doesn’t want to spend time with you alone.
  • She doesn’t kiss you.
  • Asking or hinting for presents. Very strong sign.
  • Restaurant is very expensive.
  • They want to leave quickly
  • She says she wants to not have sex until after marriage.

 

  • Indifferent signs on a first date:
  • They are quiet, subdued, are cold, don’t smile, even look bored.
  • They are relaxed
  • Good conversation
  • Smiling
  • Say thank you for the date
  • I was good to meet you

 

  • Good signs at meeting:
  • Good reaction at first sight
  • Laughing
  • They will hold you hand and tightly
  • Doesn’t pull away if you hug her
  • They ask about meeting again

Photos, Profile and Requirements

  • Photos
  • Best photo as profile photo
  • Photos a mix of studio ( business style photo) relaxed and standing
  • 2 – 5 photos
  • Recent photos less than a year old
  • Photos with facial hair (one photo at most)
  • Medium length hair, not short or long if possible
  • Photos with a date on are good
  • No food in photos, drinking, smoking
  • If you have thinking hair, a birthmark or sometime else show in a photo
  • Keep a good photo in reserve to send with first WhatsApp / Viber messages
  • I think best not to hide, in an extra photo can be shown

 

  • Profiles
  • Do not lie on anything (Else you will have to expain why you lied later)
  • Put your full real name.
  • Put your real date of birth (For this girls will do tests by asking when is your birthday of your star sign.) For me I normally do not put my real date of birth for security reasons. You will need to do here) (If you have a different DOB on your facebook, it needs to be changed)
  • Get profiles verified (the site will do this and it will cost a few pounds) Reassures girls that you are genuine, your age, nationality is correct and you are not married.
  • Fill everything in

 

  • Requirements  – What type of woman you would like to meet
  • You know this already, don’t let anyone try to change your mind
  • I have women writing to me all of the time saying, you have a child, why don’t you want a woman with a child. It’s because I don’t, none of their business.
  • You need to decide what is truely important for you.
  • What the deal breakers are:
  • Age, if they have children, if they want to have children, where they want to live when married, their weight, their height,
  • What the small points are:
  • Hair colour, eye colour, if the smoke, if they drink.
  • (most women say they don’t smoke, but many do sometimes)
  • Age – I would suggest a girl not less than 15 years younger than you. Even better no more than 10 years less. I’ve heard or – half + 7 years –  which sounds reasonable, until you get to a man in his 60’s or 70’s
  • If she has children – to take on a woman’s children and live with them full time is a very big thing. If you are not sure about this. Definitely do not look for a woman with children.
  • The kind of look the woman has, The type of woman                                                         Barbie, Geek, Business, Average looks
  • Jobs are a good way to find out the type of woman.
  • For example imagine meeting a barbie. Yes, she is the prettiest, but when she has taken her make up and everything else false off, there is little difference. Just that she would expect designer goods, luxury holidays and a big house for the rest of your life. There’s more chance that she would want to divorce earlier and take money off the man.
  • If she has been divorced and was married for a longtime without children, there is a chance that is infertile.
  • If a girl says that she is not sure if she would like to have children. I would take that as she never wants to have children.
  • The height you want a woman to be. I think it’s good that the girl is not taller than the man. As she will were heal sometimes a girl a maximum 5cm less than the man is fine.
  • Men have a preference for hair colour, but best not to get too hung up on this
  • Men don’t see that as important
  • Weight I think 65kg is the maximum for a woman, up to 70kg if she is tall.
  • Where they want to live when married, some don’t want to move from their country
  • Race this, almost all women are white, but there are some girls from Central Asia and stusents from India and Africa
  • All of these girls are damaged in one way or another. They are not married and do not have children in countries where most get married and have children in their early or mid 20’s. They have a stigma, they do not have the same respect as a married woman. Their female relatives will be reminding them all of the time that they need to marry and have children. When her mum has Grandchildren the respect to her is increased.

 

Communication

  • Even a girl says she is fluent in English. There is a chance that she does not fully understand you when you meet.
  • I think it is good to video or audio call before you arrive to see how communication is between  you. Just basic sentences or a few words and a wave.
  • The English taught in Ukraine is different to that of native English speakers in their day to day lives. They are not ready to talk to a foreigner and don’t understand all they say at first. With the native speaker having any kind of accent it would cause more difficulties. Most girls in Russia and Ukraine do not know there are different types of accents in one country.
  • Some types of accents in UK, (especially Scottish) would be the most difficult for them. The American accent is the easiest for them to understand and most know American English.
  • There is a chance that you are the first foreigner that she has met. She will assume that you will speak a certain way, an American accent or London accent.  It’s possible that when you speak she might say you are not from your country and think about rejecting you, especially is you do not look typical for that country.
  • If you are a non-native English speaker, she may not understand you too. Maybe a translator will be needed to start with.
  • To speak slower and clearer will help. Generally it’s fine speaking slowly to a girls it’s not seen as demeaning (like speaking slowly to a child)
  • At school she would have learned English. All girls will know a little English. Any girl not experienced in English will not talk in English as they will be concerned about making mistakes.
  • I think before visiting it’s best to ask what the girl prefers, a translator or not. Some like a translator as it makes them feel more comfortable. Some don’t like a translator as the don’t like someone else knowing their business.
  • I have had times when I have met a girl and have not been able to communicate to each other in any way at all, even apps. For me it’s a funny situation together, this is ok. For the girl it might be funny or they might think it’s not possible to communicate that is it, and you will be rejected. At least it’s a good test to see how you interact together.
  • I think that if there was a connection between a man and a woman the language is not so important. They can go places together, most communication is non verbal and language between them will develop.
  • For me I think, it doesn’t matter if a translator is used or not.
  • I prefer not to use a translator, I have used a translator and found that after a couple of dates she wasn’t needed. There was an anticipation that while the translator / chaperone was there, nothing romantically happen. Then things can get romantic.
  • Probably more important than the translation the woman gives is the guidance of how she feels about the woman, what she has said.  A woman of a similar age to her mum good.
  • When she had left things could get romantic
  • I’ve not used a woman translator for a long time.
  • Translator apps, google translate and Yandex are good.
  • This site is useful Many different translation sites together.
  • I know a small amount of Russian. It’s always good to learn a little Russian before visiting Russia or Ukraine. A little Russian

A Womans View – By Inna Shmyhol.

Nowadays, marriage dating sites have become possible, realistic and fashionable. People from different cultures, living thousands of miles away from each other hoping to find their soul mate and find happiness. There is a definite pattern of development of a relationship through marriage dating sites. It all starts with the first message…. I want to draw the attention of foreign men on how important is the first message. It must contain a greeting, a compliment, a brief information about yourself and a phrase that a man is interested in this woman. You should also ask at least one question.

Then, after two or three letters, when a man is convinced the woman meets his criteria and wants to continue the dialogue, it is necessary to verify the reality of each other. You must talk to her on camera and see each other. Then people can decide to continue or stop communicating. Separately I want to say how the man presents himself on camera is very important. The first impression is very important, he must look his best, be prepared in what he will say and only then go on camera. After going on camera, relationships go to another level. 

I want to draw the attention of men that are serious, interested men, should find time everyday to communicate to the woman that is the object of his attention. To write or say a few nice words, much time is not required. After about a month of communication you need to make a decision about whether to meet the woman. After all, a personal meeting is everything. Men should know how much it will cost. Where and when they will meet should be decided together. For a man to conquer a woman he should bring small gifts at least: flowers, chocolates, perfume, etc. The long-awaited meeting — It requires considerable material and emotional efforts from both sides. Because women carefully prepare for the meeting: spend a lot of time at the beauty salon, buy new clothes, etc. To meet male needs to come with a beautiful bouquet of flowers. By this gesture he will make a very good impression on the woman. The meeting should not turn into a celebration. You should behave naturally and relaxed. To discuss all aspects of life and not remain silent about any problems. The only way to get to know each other. The result of the meeting it is impossible to foresee. It depends, very much… Yes, a man risks by investing in a meeting. However, the saying goes: “Who doesn’t try gets nowhere”. It is important whatever the outcome of the meeting to leave a good impression. Dear foreign men, hurry up to register on the matrimonial sites. Maybe your soulmate is waiting for you there…

By Inna Shmyhol.

Russian or Ukranian Girls And Marriage

  • Russian or Ukrainian boys and girls often marry young, in their late teens, early 20’s and have children soon after.
  • Some of the reason for this is that the girl and her boyfriend want to live together, the only way they can afford to do this is to live with their parents Their parents sometimes won’t let them live together in their home unless they get married.
  • After marriage they normally divorce quite quickly.
  • There is also a stigma of having children out of marriage, abortions are quite common.
  • If a girl is not married by 25 it’s seen that she is an old maid, on the shelf, not wanted, a failure.
  • All of her female relatives, and some male relatives will be reminding her, that she needs to find a husband and have children.
  • In having a husband her status changes, she demands more respect and it is now possible for her to have children. Without a husband there would not be enough money. Even with his wage there might only be enough money to have one child.
  • As it’s standard that a man can be 10 years probably 15 years older than the girl, after her mid 20’s it is difficult for a girl to find a husband.
  • Older Russian or Ukrainian men with money with have a wife and maybe look for a mistress. One option for single women is to be a mistress and even have children with the man.
  • In Russia there are 87 men for every 100 women. In Ukraine there are 86 men for ever 100 women.
  • Men live until 63 and women 75  in Russia. In Ukraine men live until 65 and women 75
  • Some women aren’t in a rush to get married, and for most women one child is enough.
  • From 25 to 35 women concentrate on finding a husband. Some try online dating sites to fins a foreign man to marry.
  • Before 25 I would say  girls on the sites are playing and a large amount are scammers, asking foreign men for goods or money.

Real Russian and Ukrainian Dating

  • Real dating is a name I’ve used for dating that is no different to internet dating in America or Europe. It”s just between an Ukrainian woman and a foreign man.
  • There should be absolutely no stigma about this dating.
  • Men are making a positive informed choice.
  • Meeting on reputable dating sites like sovietdate.com 
  • No exploiting Marriage Agencies.
  • No fake tours
  • No fake profiles
  • No meeting women that are not interested in you.
  • No meeting women you are not interested in.
  • No scammers
  • No paying highly inflated foreign prices for an apartment, taxi’s, flowers, translation, meals or anything else as you are a foreigner
  • Having information and being able to make an informed decision on a girl.
  • Ukraine dating expert with you.
  • Constant help and advise in Ukraine.
  • Only meet girls you are interested in.
  • Only meet girls that are interested in you.
  • Problems with most internet dating sites:
  • Old photos – Need a number of recent photos including bad, face, full length,  without make up, instant selfie is best.
  • Heavier than weight said – site does not say weight, no full length shot.
  • older than age, name – best to use photos, usernames / emails might have a year on.
  • A picture of their passport would answer some of these
  • Profile not completed – If they have children, if they want to have children, weight, height, only one photo
  • The site used sovietdate.com is extremely expert at dealing with all of these problems and I thoroughly recommend it.